One morning, during breakfast, the wife through the window glass. She saw her neighbors was drying the clothes.
"The Clothes less clean look yes", said his wife.
"She does not know how to wash clothes properly.
Perhaps she needs better detergent."
Her husband turned around, but just shut up and not give any comment.
Since that day every neighbor hanging clothes, his wife always made the same comment about the lack of the neighbor wash his clothes clean.
A week went by, his wife surprised to see the clothes being dried neighbors were bright and clean, and she yelled to her husband: "Look, it looks clean and I think she has learned how to wash correctly. Then, Who taught her?"
Her husband said, "I was waked up early today and then to clean the glass of window."
And that's life. What we see at the time of judging others depending on the clarity of mind (window) through which we view it ..
If your heart is clean, then clean your mind anyway ...
If your mind is clean, then clean speech as well ...
If the clean speech (good), then the clean (good) deeds anyway ...
Hearts, minds and our words reflect our lives ...
If you want our lives to grow, progress, and success ...
So we have to keep the heart, mind, and our words ...
That's why everything ...
YOUR HEART determines MIND OF YOU ...
YOUR MIND determines WHAT YOU SAY ...
WHAT YOU SAY determine YOUR FUTURE ...
Sources:
TiongHoa Indonesia
http://www.facebook.com/TiongHoa.Indonesia/posts/10150674766747258
KACA JENDELA
Sepasang orang muda yang baru menikah menempati rumah di sebuah komplek perumahan.
Suatu pagi, sewaktu sarapan, si istri melalui jendela kaca. Ia melihat tetangganya sedang menjemur kain.
"Cuciannya kelihatan kurang bersih ya", kata sang istri.
"Sepertinya dia tidak tahu cara mencuci pakaian dengan benar.
Mungkin dia perlu sabun cuci yang lebih bagus."
Suaminya menoleh, tetapi hanya diam dan tidak memberi komentar apapun.
Sejak hari itu setiap tetangganya menjemur pakaian, selalu saja sang istri memberikan komentar yang sama tentang kurang bersihnya si tetangga mencuci pakaiannya.
Seminggu berlalu, sang istri heran melihat pakaian sedang dijemur tetangganya terlihat cemerlang dan bersih, dan dia berseru kepada suaminya: "Lihat, sepertinya dia telah belajar bagaimana mencuci dengan benar. Lalu, Siapa yang telah mengajarinya?"
Sang suami berkata, "Saya telah bangun pagi sekali hari ini dan membersihkan jendela kaca kita."
Dan begitulah kehidupan. Apa yang kita lihat pada saat menilai orang lain tergantung kepada kejernihan pikiran (jendela) lewat mana kita memandangnya..
Jika hatimu bersih, maka bersih pula pikiranmu ...
Jika pikiranmu bersih, maka bersih pula perkataanmu ...
Jika perkataanmu bersih (baik), maka bersih (baik) pula perbuatanmu ...
Hati, pikiran dan perkataan kita mencerminkan hidup kita ...
Jika ingin hidup kita berkembang, maju, dan sukses ...
Maka kita harus menjaga hati, pikiran, dan perkataan kita ...
Karena itulah segala-galanya ...
HATIMU menentukan PIKIRANMU ...
PIKIRANMU menentukan PERKATAANMU ...
PERKATAANMU menentukan MASA DEPANMU ...
Sumber:
TiongHoa Indonesia
http://www.facebook.com/TiongHoa.Indonesia/posts/10150674766747258
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